Do your conversations seem to inevitably lead to conflict?
Are you often disappointed when you actually get to know a person?
Does your family hate you?
It's probably because you're polarized. You form an opinion on every topic, and if someone doesn't agree with you, they're dead to you.
Who are you? What makes your opinions so special? You're no one, and they aren't.
A happier life is waiting for you on the other side of humility.